Interactive sessions to inspire, educate, and equip caregivers, educators, and professionals to help kids thrive.
Grounded in brain science, real-world experience, and a deep understanding of human behavior, Mister Stu’s trainings move beyond surface-level strategies to help adults respond more effectively when things get hard. These sessions emphasize understanding over control, consistency over intensity, and practical application over theory.
Trainings can be delivered as standalone sessions or combined into half- or full-day experiences tailored to your organization’s needs.
From Chaos to Calm
Effective Strategies for Handling Difficult Behavior
Disruptive behavior isn’t about bad kids doing bad things—it’s about children whose brains are overwhelmed and struggling to regulate. When stress rises, reasoning drops, and behavior becomes the language.
This training helps adults move beyond reaction and control and toward understanding what’s actually happening in a child’s brain during moments of escalation. Grounded in brain science and real-world practice, From Chaos to Calm equips participants with practical, realistic ways to de-escalate behavior in the moment and support long-term regulation.
Participants will explore:
Why escalated behaviors happen and what they communicate
How to respond in ways that calm the brain before trying to correct behavior
The role of consistency, predictability, and environment in reducing distress
Practical strategies for teaching self-regulation over time
This training reinforces a simple but powerful truth: calm doesn’t come from control—it comes from connection, consistency, and understanding.
Understanding What’s Really Going On
Flexible diagnosis and topic-specific workshops for educators, clinicians, caregivers, schools, organizations, and parent groups.
Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
The BOOST Approach
Understanding and Supporting Children with ADHD
Children with ADHD are often labeled as lazy, defiant, unmotivated, or out of control. In reality, many of the behaviors adults find most frustrating make far more sense when we understand the brain behind them. ADHD is not a problem of intelligence or character—it is a difference in brain function that affects focus, motivation, impulse control, memory, and emotional regulation.
In this engaging and practical session, Mister Stu breaks down what is actually happening in the ADHD brain and why so many traditional responses fall short. Using humor, brain-based explanation, and real-world application, this session moves beyond symptom lists to explore why children with ADHD struggle to “just do it,” why motivation can seem inconsistent, and why behavior often escalates when support misses the real issue.
Participants will be introduced to the BOOST approach, a practical framework for responding to ADHD in ways that work with the brain rather than against it. This session emphasizes progress over perfection, realistic support strategies, and a more compassionate understanding of children whose energy, intensity, and inconsistency are too often misunderstood.
Attendees leave with a clearer framework for ADHD, practical tools they can use right away, and a stronger ability to support children without shame, punishment, or oversimplification.
Autism Spectrum Disorder
Putting the Pieces Together
Understanding and Supporting Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder
Autism isn’t about missing pieces—it’s about pieces that don’t yet work together. When adults understand how a child’s brain is functioning, behavior becomes clearer and support becomes more effective.
Based on Mister Stu’s bestselling book, this training goes beyond surface-level traits to focus on the underlying brain processes that influence behavior, communication, and regulation. Participants gain both clarity and practical strategies that support autistic children without trying to “fix” who they are.
Participants will gain insight into:
Why autism is often misunderstood
How brain chemistry and development influence common traits
The difference between treating symptoms and supporting root causes
Practical, evidence-informed strategies across home, school, and therapy settings
This session helps adults move from fear or frustration to confidence and clarity.
Anxiety
The 5 N’s for Building Brave
Understanding and Supporting Children with Anxiety
Children with anxiety are often misunderstood as overly sensitive, avoidant, dramatic, controlling, or unwilling to try. In reality, anxious children are not trying to make life difficult—they are trying to protect themselves from situations their brains have identified as dangerous, overwhelming, or uncertain.
In this engaging and practical session, Mister Stu breaks down what anxiety actually is, what is happening inside the brain when anxiety takes over, and why anxious children often struggle with flexibility, confidence, emotional regulation, and everyday tasks. Using humor, relatable examples, and brain-based explanation, this session helps adults understand anxiety not as attention-seeking or weakness, but as a nervous system that has become overprotective.
Participants will learn how the brain’s alarm system contributes to anxiety, why avoidance temporarily feels helpful but strengthens anxiety long-term, and how adults can support children without reinforcing fear. The workshop emphasizes helping children build tolerance for discomfort, confidence through experience, and emotional regulation skills that allow them to move forward even when anxiety is present.
Attendees leave with a clearer understanding of childhood anxiety, practical strategies for responding to anxious behaviors, and greater confidence in helping children face challenges with support rather than shame.
Trauma
Restoring Safety
Understanding and Supporting Children with Trauma
Children who have experienced trauma are often labeled as aggressive, manipulative, defiant, attention-seeking, or emotionally unstable. In reality, many traumatized children are living with nervous systems that no longer feel safe—even when the danger has passed. Their brains learn to stay on high alert, causing everyday situations to feel overwhelming, threatening, or impossible to manage.
In this powerful and practical session, Mister Stu helps participants understand what trauma actually does to the developing brain and body. Using engaging stories, brain-based explanation, and real-world application, this workshop explores why traumatized children often react instead of respond, why behavior can escalate so quickly, and why traditional discipline approaches frequently make things worse rather than better.
Participants will learn how trauma impacts emotional regulation, attention, relationships, memory, behavior, and the brain’s internal alarm system. The session emphasizes recognizing changes, patterns, and extremes in behavior while helping adults move away from shame and punishment and toward safety, connection, predictability, and healing.
This session reinforces a simple but life-changing truth: trauma is not just about what happened—it is about the brain believing the danger is still happening. Attendees leave with a clearer understanding of trauma responses, practical strategies for helping children feel safe again, and greater confidence in responding to difficult behavior with compassion, consistency, and effectiveness.
Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder/Oppositional Defiant Disorder (DMDD/ODD)
Finding the Calm
Understanding and Supporting Children with DMDD and ODD
Children with DMDD and ODD are often labeled as manipulative, defiant, explosive, disrespectful, or “just looking for attention.” In reality, many of these children are struggling with brains that have difficulty understanding, regulating, and responding to emotions—both in themselves and in the people around them. What looks like intentional misbehavior is often emotional overload, misunderstanding, or a nervous system reacting faster than the thinking brain can respond.
In this engaging and practical session, Mister Stu breaks down what is actually happening inside the brains of children with Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). Using humor, brain-based explanation, and real-world application, this workshop explores why some children seem to “go from 0 to 100,” why consequences and power struggles often fail, and why seemingly small situations can trigger massive emotional or behavioral reactions.
Participants will explore how neurotransmitters, emotional processing, the amygdala, and the prefrontal cortex contribute to chronic irritability, explosive reactions, emotional misunderstanding, and oppositional behaviors. The session emphasizes that these children are not simply choosing chaos for no reason—their brains are often misreading emotional intensity, danger, fairness, and social interaction in ways that create genuine distress and dysregulation.
Attendees will leave with a clearer understanding of the root causes behind explosive and oppositional behavior, practical strategies for increasing regulation and emotional understanding, and a stronger ability to respond with consistency, calmness, and connection rather than escalating conflict and punishment.
Depression
Lightening the Load
Understanding and Supporting Children with Depression
Children with depression are often misunderstood as lazy, unmotivated, dramatic, negative, or unwilling to try. In reality, depression is far more than sadness. For many children, it feels like trying to move through life while carrying a backpack full of bricks—everything takes more energy, everyday tasks feel overwhelming, and even things that used to bring joy can begin to feel dull or exhausting.
In this engaging and practical session, Mister Stu breaks down what is actually happening inside the brain of a child with depression and why so many behaviors connected to depression are frequently misinterpreted. Using humor, brain-based explanation, and real-world application, this workshop explores why children with depression may struggle with energy, motivation, concentration, emotional regulation, sleep, appetite, and frustration tolerance.
Participants will learn how neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin, norepinephrine, and GABA impact mood, pleasure, energy, sleep, and daily functioning. The session emphasizes that depression is not simply a bad attitude or a lack of effort—it is a real difference in brain function that affects how children experience the world, process reward, and manage the demands of everyday life.
Attendees will leave with a clearer understanding of childhood depression, practical strategies for supporting emotional and functional regulation, and greater confidence in helping children move forward with compassion, consistency, and realistic support rather than shame or oversimplification.
Guided Q&A / Case Consultation
Real-Time Insight on the Challenges That Matter Most
Some of the most valuable learning happens through conversation. This guided Q&A and consultation session gives participants the opportunity to ask real-world questions, explore complex situations, and receive thoughtful, practical guidance tailored to their setting.
This session can stand alone or be paired with any keynote or training for deeper application and reflection.
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“Best presentation I have seen… Mr. Stu is an amazing, passionate, and engaging speaker who makes complex ideas clear and practical. His metaphors and visuals — especially ‘carrying the tray’ — are unforgettable and so useful in my work with children. Everything was presented with great energy and enthusiasm… I left feeling inspired, equipped, and ready to apply what I learned right away. Please bring him back next year!”
ClarityCon 2025 Participants
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“Hearing Mister Stu speak…was truly inspiring. His compassionate approach to teen mental health and ability to connect with both students and caregivers is amazing. Every person in America needs to hear what he has to say about…fear in our culture. Fear, when left unaddressed, isolates people, fuels misunderstanding, and prevents families from getting the support they need. Every child deserves to feel safe… and Mister Stu’s message punctuated our team’s goals in the most meaningful way.”
Julie Wilson | Library Director
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"[Mister Stu] blew our expectations out of the water! He consistently impressed attendees with his knowledge and ability to be grounded in science while maintaining his unique relatability. Often people tell you to change the behavior, but he also helps you understand the “why” behind the needed change in an insightful and engaging manner. Our Parents could feel his passion for improving understanding between themselves and children come out in his keynote and are already imploring us to bring him back next year!"
Michael Mitchell | Senior Impact Manager
ReadyKidSA | United Way of San Antonio -
“As one attendee stated, ‘Mister Stu’s message was the one that I didn’t know I needed to hear.’”
Tonia Carriger | Director
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“Mister Stu's training was by far the favorite session of our entire camp training week...He connects with staff in a way that makes the content engaging, practical, and immediately useful...and weeks later, counselors were still sharing how much it impacted their leadership and work with kids.”
Christopher Cassada | Executive Director
YMCA Camp Piomingo -
“[Mister Stu’s] message truly resonated with my team—several were deeply moved, and a few were even brought to tears...Many people came up to me afterward to share how much they appreciated and were inspired by [his] words...What made [his] presentation especially powerful was how beautifully it aligned with the theme of our annual training—Back to Basics. [He] brought us back to the core of why we do what we do, reminding us of the values and purpose that drive our work every day...The message reinforced everything we’ve been working toward this year and gave us renewed energy and clarity moving forward.”
Lisa Reimann-NeSmith | Education Service Director
Head Start & Early Head Start
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"Stuart is a passionate and knowledgeable speaker who very effectively connected with our audience. He is among the most organized and responsive speakers I've planned an event with and I'd recommend him as a versatile professional who could connect with a variety of audiences."
Julie Stone | Executive Director
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"Wonderfully vulnerable and excellent speaker. Thank you for brining Stuart. It brought so much insight for the reasons our kids do what they do. His session was clear and easy to follow. Thank you for the reminder bad kids don’t exist."
ClarityCon | Keynote Participant
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"I sat in the audience and kept thinking, “I wish everyone in Head Start (and beyond) could hear this... Honestly, I could have listened and learned from him all day. I have already booked him again...he is just too good, and the best I have heard on this complex topic."
Dawn Ault | Executive Director
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"Mr. Stu’s training blew us all away! My team usually dreads Saturday training—but after Mr. Stu’s, I heard laughter, intentional conversations, and genuine excitement to apply what they’d learned. The training was engaging, interactive, and filled with the kind of encouragement we all need sometimes. Thank you, Mr. Stu, for the work you continue to do!"
Miranda Lopez Chilton | Program Director
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“ I have attended several of Mister Stu’s sessions on supporting children’s social and emotional health. His workshops were engaging, highly insightful, and was incredibly valuable for our education staff. Not only is Mr. Perry an extremely knowledgeable children’s mental health therapist, but he also has a great sense of humor and the ability to break down complex topics—such as brain science—into practical, easy-to-understand concepts that caregivers can use to help understand and regulate children’s behavior. I have never met anyone more passionate about children’s mental health advocacy!"
Cindy Raymond | Program Director
Scotty County, VA Head Start -
"[Mister Stu] was the most invested I have seen a presenter, in a long time. What a phenomenal human being to be in the role of wanting to better the world for children!" "I wish all our teachers had the opportunity to hear this man talk." "If you don't sit back and re-evaluate how you look at children's behaviors after this speech you are in the wrong field!"
Ohio Head Start Association | Keynote Attendees
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"Mister Stu engaged our staff to think deeply and differently and inspired our staff to think compassionately...I have been hearing multiple accounts from my staff as they are implementing Mister Stu’s strategies with great results. Our program has already benefited from having Mister Stu guide and inspire us during our in-service day."
Eddie Mullins | Education Director
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"I hope he comes back every year, and I would go to any session lead by him! Fantastic presenter with incredible delivery. My favorite of the whole conference!"
ClarityCon | Workshop Participant
San Antonio, TX -
“So engaging and made everything easy to follow, understand, and ask questions! My favorite session all conference.”
Indiana University Early Intervention Conference
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“From the evaluations of the day, many from our group said [Mister Stu] was their favorite session of the day and asked that [he] lead another session in the future...The level of interaction of the participants during [Mister Stu’s] keynote was perfect—they stayed engaged and ready to learn.”
Janae Davidson | Regional Coordinator
Early Childhood Resource Center